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For some parents, dinnertime is one of the most dreaded moments of the day. Why? Because it’s often at this time that one of the most complex negotiation sessions begins, rivaling the G7 and other world summits: getting children to eat broccoli.
Before going any further, there’s no intention here to damage broccoli’s reputation. And the author of this article has received no funding from the Brussels sprouts industry…
Faced with this seemingly simple task — getting someone they love to eat something healthy — parents often resort to all sorts of creative tactics: blackmail, trickery, intimidation, or rewards promises. Yet, despite their efforts, the result is often the same: the child ends up forcing themselves to eat, barely perceptible, without any enjoyment.
Does this sound familiar? This is pretty much what happens to many people with physical activity.
Many people have the same relationship with physical activity as children have with their green veggies. They know it’s good for them and have often even tried to force themselves to “consume” it more regularly. But the feeling of obligation, the lack of enjoyment, or internal and/or external pressures have ultimately transformed this healthy activity into an unpleasant and tedious chore. And as is often the case with human behavior, the harder you try to force yourself, the stronger the resistance becomes.
What behavioral psychology teaches us is that pleasure and autonomy are far more powerful motivators than coercion. The solution, therefore, is certainly not to force yourselves to be physically active or to feel guilty by saying things like: “I should be moving more” or “I just lack discipline”, but to understand how to change your relationship with physical activity.
Basically, it’s not so much about “eating broccoli at all costs” as it is about learning to approach it differently, to make it more palatable: finding the right sauce, the right texture, or the right side dishes. In other words, less “I have to eat my broccoli, I know it’s good for me” and more “How could I cook broccoli differently so I enjoy it more?”
If physical activity evokes mixed feelings for you, here is a non-exhaustive list of practical questions that can serve as a starting point for approaching physical activity differently:
Hopefully, the answers to these questions will help you make physical activity more manageable and enjoyable in your daily life! If you would like personalized support to explore this approach further, please feel free to contact me at [email protected].
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